Adoption Journey
Nicole And Taylor are Hoping to Adopt.
Out of everything we could tell you,
What we want you to know first is.
We are aching for another family member, Not just a baby, but eventually a toddler, child, teenager, and an adult.. they will be treasured, will be included, raised in love and appreciated.
Second, We are a christian family,
That needs to be up there on the list too, because it manifests itself in everything we do. Family is not only top priority to us, it’s everything. We believe we’ll be an eternal family so, nurturing and growing our relationships is what life is about to us.
And the other most important thing I (Nicole) want you to know is
Taylor (my husband) is the most “hands on” & involved dad I’ve ever seen. He is an equal part of our team.
It’s important to me to tell you this, because I know having a loving, involved dad can make all the difference.
Tay and I, are still so in love after 10 years.
And When there is a problem, we work it out.
Taylor is a Dentist
Nicole does Newborn photography & brand videography. But her most favorite is, she gets to be a stay at home mom.
T and SJ
Would be this little wonders siblings.
They are anything but indifferent to another baby joining our family.
My son said the other day he wished he could grow a baby in his tummy for me, since mine is broken.
We talk about it every day, and are finishing all the legal sides of being able to adopt.
T our 5 year old boy is silly,
he is active, brave and careful.
SJ our 3 year old is our light.
She is stubborn, independent, and nurturing.
Taylor and I want to grow our family, we have enough room in our house, hearts and the financial stability to provide everything this baby will need.
We are hoping to answer any immediate questions you might have here in this blog.
- Tour of our house
- A little bit about Taylor and Nicole
- Why we are hoping to adopt
- Several character and parenting references
Email us at Nicoletayloradopt@gmail.com
Tour of our home
Baby will sleep next to my husband and I for several months. Then when old enough, will have a room right next door, with a baby monitor.
Here are our two Kids rooms
Here is our front room, my absolute favorite room to be in!
Here is our kitchen and where our Family eats.
Here is our family room, where we watch TV and play.
We have a sweetheart black lab, who is up to date on all her shots, and a fenced back yard.
We have three bathrooms and 5 bedrooms in this house.
AND last but not least, the best spot in the house, a play room! And my home studio
A little bit about Taylor and Nicole
Nicole:
What to say, when you have to sum up who you are as a person and parent.
I am 33
I am intensely loyal and honor any commitment I make.
I am silly, yet thrive on control and being in charge.
I paint every evening while watching TV with Taylor.
I grow talents that I know will bring me closer to others.
I enjoy hosting gatherings.
I am a member of the church of Jesus Christ. and I live it.
Taylor:
My name is Taylor and I would like to introduce myself. First and foremost, I want you to know that my relationships mean everything to me, especially those of my family and to Christ.
I feel one of my biggest strengths is my big heart. I pray that I can be a light to those around me.
I am beyond blessed to have 2 children who are my best friends. Over the course of my late teen years and early adult years I have grown a very strong relationship with my father and mother and I want to create those same friendships and relationships with my own children.
My father taught me what it means to work hard and earn what comes your way and I feel that is an ever growingly important thing to instill it today’s youth.
My mother taught me how important it is to laugh and enjoy life around you.
They have been the biggest examples of keeping God in your heats and relying on him through life’s trial. It is my true desire to pass these vital life lessons to my children.
Why Adoption?
I have mourned, been stretched and ultimately grown so very much in these two years of ache.
This is all different than the way I thought it would be, but here I am.
This new baby will be MORE than WE ever could deserve.
I SEE and understand the sacrifice.
I would be so lucky to be considered the safe place for you to land.
I am able to carry my own children, I have.
the past two years, we've struggled with getting pregnant and then staying pregnant.
It's a new trial, one I didn't think would happen.
We've pleaded with our Father in Heaven, to grow our family.
One day I was driving home, I was overcome.
I HAVE a child already growing out there. I could FEEL it deep in my soul. I am looking for them, keeping my heart open for them, and ready to LOVE and help you as the mother.
I am trusting in Heavenly Father to guide us together.
Email us at Nicoletayloradopt@gmail.com
Character References:
Kennedy 27 F
I have known Nicky and Taylor for four years now and they are some of the most amazing people I have ever met.
I have watched them raise two beautiful little spirits with so much love and compassion. Whenever challenges arise, Nicky is always willing to dig deeper and do the work to figure out exactly why something is going on with her kids. Instead of just deciding that her son was a picky eater and sending him to bed hungry, she realized that there was a bigger issue and got him into food therapy and works every day to make sure he get the nutrients he needs.
Nicky is an amazing stay home mom and truly loves spending time with her kids. She teaches them in a way that builds them up instead of tearing them down. She truly helps me be a better mom just by watching her. She encourages them and gives them confidence in every aspect of their life. She nurtures their talents and teaches them it’s ok to be silly and goofy and be 100% themselves. She is their biggest cheerleader and their comfort place when they are sad.
Nicky and Taylor have so much love in their hearts and are always finding ways to spread that love to others. Every Christmas they put together a huge charity event where they provide gifts for 9+ families who are in situations that they cannot provide for themselves. It is incredible to watch two people inspire so much love and sense of community. They have a way of bringing people together and making everyone feel loved, valued, and wanted.
Nicky and Taylor are amazing examples for their kids and all of those around them. They have huge hearts and I am so lucky to call them my friends.
Braden 35 M
I grew up with my sister, Nicole, who is only three years younger than me. I have stayed close to
her as we have grown, so I can personally attest that she has had a kind, nurturing personality
her entire life. From animals to people, she cares for all living things. And before she had kids of
her own, she spent years nannying and caring for other people’s children.
I have known Taylor since he married my sister in 2014. He is my first (and only) brother-in-law.
He is someone who always has a positive energy. He’s one who is outgoing and friendly and
great at finding ways to connect with people. Watching him love my sister has been a learning
experience for me. His love and care for my sister through the ups and downs of life has been a
great example.
I was fortunate to live a few miles away from Nicole and Taylor when their first child, T
was born. Seeing my sister and brother-in-law become parents for the first time was special.
They love that little guy so much. And since little SJ, their second child, joined the family
two years later, I have seen Nicole and Taylor blossom into more loving, supportive parents.
They have become excellent teachers when it comes to helping their kids learn how to have fun,
love others, and navigate the emotions of being a tiny human.
One thing that I know is very important to Nicole and Taylor is family—especially relationships
with extended family. They have raised their children to have close, healthy relationships with
their grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and more. Though I no longer live near them, I still
stay close with Nicole and Taylor and their kids, and I get to see them multiple times throughout
the year.
I have every confidence that Nicole and Taylor will provide the most loving, healthy, safe, and
supportive home for a new baby—now and into the future.
Best,
Braden Thompson
Zach 33yr M
I have known Nicky for over sixteen years. We became friends in high school and have stayed close ever since. She is a very thoughtful person. She has never missed wishing me a happy birthday even if we were miles apart or out of phone contact, I would get a letter or an email! She is a faithful friend and is devoted to those she loves. I have seen the same traits be magnified in her as she has become a mother. When she met my wife, she instantly accepted her as a friend, and has been just as kind to her as she has to me ever since. Our kids are similar in age and it has been fun to watch her raise her kids and be a wonderful mother. Since our kids are similar in age, I understand the challenges with each age and I have seen her and her husband raise their kids well in those hard situation's. I met Taylor at their wedding. He was instantly a guy that would be your best friend if you would let him. Very kind and made you feel welcome.Together they have an awesome marriage and created a wonderful family. He is a good father who spends a lot of time with his kids and takes them to do the things that he loves so that they can learn it. He supports his wife, they are a great example of a great marriage and being great parents.My wife and I have the opinion, that any kid that gets to be a part of their family will be blessed. They will love that child, teach them, and always make them feel special. Their children will be successful because of the love they feel from their parents.
Sharon (Family friend)
I have know Nicole since she was a little girl! She is full of life, loving and kind. She goes out of her way to make others feel loved and excepted. Nicole and Taylor are a beautiful couple who love each other very much and are committed to each other and their children. They have the love and support of a wonderful extended family and friends as they work to grow their own family.
Jameson 31M and Letty 32F
The Zollinger’s Nicky and Taylor are amazing! They are caring, loving parents who put their kids first in everything they do. They care about their children’s learning and growth and they put them in situations where they can develop important skills to be successful in life. They have a strong belief in God and they set an example for their kids of how to live to be happy. They are financially stable and able to care and provide for their children and any others that will join their family. We can say that Nicky and Taylor are incredible individuals who have put a lot of time into deciding they want to adopt. They are excellent parents and love unconditionally. We have been friends with them for 10+ years and they have always been caring, genuine, loyal, giving, and uplifting and we have seen those traits carry into their parenting.
Sincerely, Jameson and Letty FunkKarina 31F Connor 33M
My husband and I have known Taylor and Nicky for about 9 years. My husband met Taylor while working construction in college. He always talked about how hard working and fun Taylor was. When I met Nicky for the first time, she was so welcoming, kind, friendly, and funny. She immediately made me smile and feel loved. Taylor and Nicky are some the kindest, most friendly people I have ever met. We would have couples game nights at their house and there were always at least 4 new people we didn’t know because they had made friends with someone new at school, at work, or just at the park. They carry all of that kindness and warmth into being parents.
Their two kids embody all those same attributes and I know that it is because of the example their parents show to them. They provide the best parenting for each of their children and make sure to parent them based on each child’s individual needs.
They are always striving to make life more fun, make more memories, and be the parents their kids deserve.
Nicky is constantly checking in on those in her life. She strives to make everyone feel so important, loved, and taken care of. She is always the first one to show up for those she loves.
Taylor is extremely hardworking, caring, and sacrifices so much for his family. They really are the perfect couple. Like all couples they have disagreements but they are great at communication, very respectful of each other, kind, and are so in love. Their kids know they are loved and taken care of always because they make every day special and fun.
There isn’t a more worthy couple that I think should have the opportunity to expand their family through adoption.
Chet 35 M
It is with great pleasure and utmost confidence that I write to express my wholehearted support for Taylor
and Nicole's decision for adoption.
I have had the distinct privilege of knowing Taylor for over seven years, since our time together in dental
school. We began as colleagues in the rigorous academic setting of dental school, where Taylor
consistently demonstrated not only an outstanding work ethic but also a profound sense of ethics and
responsibility. His dedication to his studies was evident, and he proved himself an indispensable member
of my personal study group. Taylor's intelligence, perseverance, and genuine concern for others were
unmistakable, setting him apart as someone whom I respect and trust deeply.
Above being a wonderful classmate and colleague, Taylor has been an unwavering and devoted friend to
me and my family. Our friendship has grown over the years, and I have had the privilege of witnessing the
way he extends the same principles of ethics, hard work, and care to all aspects of his life. His
commitment to his family, particularly to his wife Nicole and their children, is truly remarkable. Nicole,
like Taylor, is a person of great character and compassion, and together they have built a loving and stable
family environment.
The decision to adopt is a testament to their loving nature. I have no doubt that Taylor and Nicole would
make an exceptional family for any child fortunate enough to join their lives. Their love for each other
and their children is evident in the way they interact and support one another, creating a warm and
welcoming atmosphere in their home.
As a friend who has shared many meaningful moments with Taylor and Nicole I’ve witnessed firsthand
their parenting qualities in their home. They are well prepared and will excel in this next parenting step.
Their ability to provide love, guidance, and a strong moral foundation for an adopted child is
unquestionable.
Laura Robinson 32F
My husband has known Taylor and Nicole since college 15 years ago and they have been friends
ever since. I was lucky enough to be introduced to them 4 years ago and have been so grateful
for their friendship.
They have an energy about them that everyone is drawn to.
Nicole has open arms to everyone. She is constantly opening her home to friends and to friends’
kids in need. We all know Nicole is a mom we can trust and that is difficult to come by.
I trust her completely with my kids. She is a photographer and it’s so fun to watch her in action because
kids naturally beam at her. She simply has a beautiful spirit about her. She also has a gift for
helping kids work out their issues. She knows exactly how intervene in a way that all kids end up
with smiles on their faces.
Taylor is incredibly responsible and thoughtful. He always does a great job of making people feel
included and welcomed. You can always count on Taylor in a time of need. He has worked hard
to become successful to be able to provide for his family while at the same time finding the
balance between work and family. As a dad, he always puts his kids first and he is the kids’
number one fan.
As a couple, Taylor and Nicole are the epitome of a good team. They are the kind of couple
everyone aspires to be like. They prioritize each other’s needs and are great examples of what a
loving relationship looks like. They have such an incredible home. A baby would be so lucky to
grow up with Taylor and Nicole as parents and with two wonderful siblings to play and build
relationships with. This is the perfect family!
I wholeheartedly recommend this family for adoption.
Email us at Nicoletayloradopt@gmail.com
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